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The marriage is not a person's solo dance
The marriage is not a person's solo danceThe marriage is beautiful, say its beauty is because as I saw those married couple already pass the middle age or to declining years, dote on all one's life, keep all one's life, incomparable envy in the heart. The happiness, the consolation could savour in among them people only, that is a kind of ordinary person's, quiet love.
When come in marriage, the love has just become habit slowly, used to to thinking he likes eating assortedly while buying vegetables? ,Used to to the cold spell in spring resting when being first warm, used to coming back a light not put out until the night of winter, used to a greeting after it is weariness, one sound when being used to arriving and going out gives repeated exhortations
The marriage needs managing diligently, the marriage is the course of constant break-in too, get up for the first time and have some among long community life of couple in raised angles, the love of the skin when by the teenager, has reached the blending of the repeated and constant trifling matters of everyday life, though full of noisily, full of fragmentary, that is sections of interludes of life, but that kind moistens it with the end, just have embodiment of true feelings.
In fact have a lot of happiness too, dull happiness, just among them, it is difficult to realize. After for a long time, when recalled and sampled carefully aloning, will smile slightly, at this moment, a great deal of unhappy to know cigarette fly to and bury in oblivion in the past.
No matter by what kind of way lives, what we pursued is two words forever: " happy ".
The happiness is not inevitable, not luxurious, it needs facing diligently, that to love you have, discuss to family, devotion in children, the feeling I believe each middle aged men and women have.
When everybody has a happiness sense, in the heart all will be sweet, often accompanied by the commitment, tolerant and offering quietly, at this time, sharing weal and woe, helping each other when both are in humble circumstances among the couple, heart have magic horn savour most dark, although the one that is not pursuing not one is luxurious and romantic, the love turns into the continuous kindred like the murmuring flowing water gradually,
Yes, the ones that always speak are good: The one that was kissed most is parents, the recent one is the couple.
Nobody can share weal and woe with you, there is your lover.
And like when being ambidextrously, people in middle age generally, because already the people in middle age too perhaps as couple, after going through the countless baptism of the tribulation in life, it can be quieter that the mood will make.
Pre-marital passion, dull after marriage, needing savouring slowly of man and woman dully in this marriage, the happiness of the marriage is not the illusion out of reach, the happiness is your recalling with deep feeling at this moment, different women should have different happy intension.
Real happiness is to oneself, a kind of vividdest approval of one's own actual life, to the love of dull marriage life, perhaps you savour now, five years, ten years or person is by declining years, you can really savour, savour this dull comfort, dull warmth.
The marriage is not a person's solo dance
Successful intelligence password
Successful intelligence passwordThough Americans spend and exceed 11 billion dollars in the amount of money of growing up on relevant products oneself in one year, but obtained the method to succeed in the idea in the past, had its defect, this set of methods included: Set up goal, towards goal diligent, one's own progress of commenting etc. regularly, try until goal of reaching constantly. The problems of this set of methods lie in, facing while only dealing with consciousness of showing ' how to succeed ', and subconscious it neglect or obstacles of mood, it is the only and ' why ',etc. face, and these may hinder you from obtaining the factor succeeding.
Reach long-term happy, achievement and wealth, must make subconscious and one's own goal identical with all strength, identical with the motive of reaching this target too. Conquer one's own subconscious first, can get rid of all hindrance that frame oneself. So-called one to adjust one's own subconscious to locking the successful state first, the achievement in so ideal will be realized naturally.
Successful password 1: Put forward the question of enlightenment
Succeed in the password 7 step A question of putting forward enlightenment
Put forward the question of appearing in the heart when you realize the goal, make use of the subconscious thinking way of this change, enable it from turning negatively to front. As intelligence looks for the course of the answer, you will find that have a set of brand-new ideas to life and undertaking oneself, and therefore adopt different actions.
Successful password 2: Strive for unconditional support
Want to achieve your due achievement, you need support unconditionally of other people. Getting to know can bring the person who stand in your life and duty margin like this, if other people believe you, will make you have stronger confidence to oneself.
If anyone is unable to treat oneself objectively and just, this is impossible at all, there is too multifactor judgement that will hoodwink you, and cause influence unconsciously. It must seek others' just and unselfish opinion to find out one's own advantage and disadvantage. The best person who can do this kind of judgement, would like to support you, hope for your successful person unconditionally.
Successful password 3: Set up the system of supporting
Should let life and undertaking emit light and heat, 5 operating systems under necessary construction: Interpersonal system, action system, environmental system, examine oneself the system and reduced system. Let these 5 systems be operated smoothly, could reach the greatest achievement with the efforts at least.
1.If your unable effective operation of interpersonal system of the interpersonal system, everything other is just not important. You must be able to meet others' demands, can let one's own career prosperity and development.
2.The action system of the action with complete system can help you continuously, let time use more efficiently, because the mankind most valuable resource is time, vigor and money.
3.Environmental system must can set up effective environmental system of operation, assess oneself inherent and which loud hindrance most external environment condition have regularly, then judge it is disorderly what actions oneself must be adopted to remove.
4.The system is engaged in some activities every day to examine oneself, let oneself be advanced continuously, and really march towards the real goal in the heart.
5.The personages and enterprises of the high achievement of the reduced system are simplifying at any time, so that the activity that they are engaged in can reach peak.
Successful password 4: Goal with really long-range mind
During your life and undertaking, the goal is really very important. But you must confirm goals pursued, really want oneself, it is not what others want. In order to let oneself rejuvenate, can arrange one period with every day, let oneself have a rest in all sorts of activities correlated with goal. Help oneself to be charged regularly, can be in order to achieve higher achievement.
Successful password 5: Get rid of the hiding obstacle
Careless, you may tie down oneself in order to protect or punish others. Leave from these hidden hindrance, you can advance bravely. Let oneself pursue being outstanding, your intelligence will make great efforts to reach the astonishing achievement.
Successful password 6: Often say even more ' '
The successful personage has a common speciality, it is they that understand how to say ' ', will not make people unhappy. The society says ' ' with a smile, march toward a quite key step in successful course. Want to stride forward, must be learnt to say by oneself ' '.
Successful password 7: Find the goal in real life
Most people try, go, understand why reach these in this world oneself never always, so will feel barren, setback and angry, but not self-awareness. Don't let oneself be turned into like this too. Find out one's own real goal or mission, then allow oneself to devote life in this mission, this will bring the great fulfillment.
The friendship is a tree
The friendship is a treeWhen being busy, want to have a rest;
While spending holidays, think of future.
When being poor, it is rich to thirst for;
The easiness of life, it can't be for a long time to afraid of the happiness.
Afraid the result is not so good as expectancy when it's time to determine;
Understand, regretted not reaching a decision originally.
Not belonging to oneself, often the heart stores the desire;
Hold, into hand, it cherishes the memory of before having to be light again.
Life if not now, when is that?
One can become a relative all one's life with you utterly unjustifiably, but
One can not become a friend all one's life with you utterly unjustifiably
I will remember all sorts of known with you.
Will remember the bit happening too.
Will sit in front of the computer telling each other the heartfelt wishes as now does until we are all old?
No matter how, hope we are sincere and relative friends (bosom friend) forever
Even if the friend likes you to understand the person of you
Wish you to treasure every friend at one's side
Because you and I have fate, could become the friend
The one that can become bosom friend is more rare!
Time may not be the reason why you and I become the bosom friend
But can be by proving to certainly
Your care to friend is not useless!
Hope you are my good friend forever!
Friend, it was you that want to share with him when being glad,
Friend, it was you that can lose the temper for you when being unhappy,
Friend, rescue you when you do not have money that serve the meal too,
Friend, you can be with feeling nervous with you while feeling terribly bored,
Friend is will willing to give homework you, copy, produce cat with fining together with you,
Friend, want to buy a old one for him when you buy the hand letter too,
Friend is when you see him reaching the standard grade too!
Want, realize how much value does it have one year, you can go, ask one fail student that rebuilt.
Want to realize how much value there is in January, you can go to ask a mother of unfortunate premature delivery.
Want to realize how much value there is in one week, you can go to ask the editor of a fixed weekly magazine.
Want, realize how much value does it have one hour, you can go, ask couple wait lovers that meet.
Want to realize how much value there is in one minute, you can go to ask a traveller who misses the train.
Want to realize how much value there is in one second, you can go to ask a luck fellow escaping death by a hair's breadth.
Want to realize how much value one millisecond has, you can go to ask the athletes of a fault gold medal.
The friend is Even moved small by some, some trifle things all want to share together
The friend is When you embraced the head to cry, were supporting that person with your shoulder
The friend is As you at the time of the setback in the face of life, hold that pair of hands of yours tight
How are you?
You can see he is the fate of you and him
It is the fate of you and him too that you can become friends with the person around you
Even if you do not know when this meteor will disappear
But if you treasure and see this meteoric every quarter carefully
That even if you will not regret either that the meteor has gone
Please treasure everyone around carefully
Treasure this section of friendship!
Establish friendship and look like and plant trees, because the friendship is a tree
(TREE) :
T:Trust( believes in)
R:Respect( respects)
E:Exchange( exchanges)
E:Emotional Support (spirit is supported) meshowfashion
The friend accompanies you to pass by the trials and hardship virtually, support your strength forever
The friend is that one kind is unable to speak the beautiful feeling explained
The friend is others
Been partial to that person of yours forever ago
The friend even moved small by some, some trifle things all want to share together
The friend was supporting that person with your shoulder when you wept in each other's arms
The friend is as you at the time of the setback in the face of life, hold that pair of hands of yours tight
Like raining, because you will not know I shed tears
Unforgettable mother love
Unforgettable mother loveAs a child, I can grow up carefree on mother's back, was the dream that mother wove the daughter, have lighted that lamp in the heart, accompany me to pass by life that bumpy journey.
I remember how give a piggyback I walk, how is I shoulder, grow up in mother seriously ill mother, predictably, it is more difficult than the healthy person for the sick mother. It is mother that let me learn the beginning in people, the reason of conducting oneself and doing thing. I did not understand mother's heart, her tenderness of her love, her care and caring for at that time, a thoughtless one I grow up slowly under to contain mother, know as me and understand mother, mother includes the tears, is taking and worrying and caring for eternal leaving me more or less.
My only backer has gone bankrupt, but mother has taught me the middle school of the adverse circumstance will strengthening, face the difficulty and fail bravely, adapt to any environment and seek survival, this is incomparably precious wealth and love that my mother left to me.
Though mother has left, living she forever is in my heart, I think of her forever, she is only my place, nobody replaces, is my favorite too, more unforgettable love!
I can not remember the little aunt is how to hold me when mother is sick, giving me a piggyback, I do not know, from the little aunt to in the memory of that section of past events, I know others' cool detachment to her, the cold helplessness coldly of it
I know the front part of a Chinese robe or jacket of her cotton-padded clothes gives out light bright, and is often the wetland; Know, smoke wicked face that pair have wicked to have heavy eyes bright cook anthracite, just. The little aunt was only 16 years old at that time, one lost little girl who parents cared about, can prop up a family when the elder sister is seriously ill, is bringing to a child not one year old, predictably, how difficult thing is these, little aunt tell the past event whenever, I remember childhood helplessly of that suffering, little aunt's unselfish love, make me unforgettable forever. Little aunt's life is very bitter, few people go to imprison her, but she dimples youth and all love of hers for these children without mother love of ours.
The little aunt often looked after me too, cared about me after my mother passed away. She cares about me, there are sister in law of my elder brothers of three aunts of I. Still when my mother did not pass away, because three aunts of mine are so sick as to pass away, leave four children, the minimum one is just two years old, she, in order to look after these four children, marry three husbands of one's maternal aunt of mine, bring them up the adult, the children all have one's own families now, but because little aunt overworks, and has fallen ill, the disease can't be paid by oneself in bed now, when I come back home to see little aunt this year, I am very ashamed, what she paid for us is too much, but we have given her anything again, that smile containing tears when she sees me, I realize the unselfish and greatness of the mother love, she ask what it will be we, can often come back home to see the foot, but we can not make perhaps, when we loved one's own child, ever thought, we loved 1/10 which loved the child mother, she is ample, often this can not be done too, talk about a innermost thoughts and feelings, we owe mother's unable compensation, it is more unable to express in language. meshowfashion
I have these two mothers, though unfortunately, I have them for my unselfish love in my life, I am happy forever, in I cherish certain intentions forever in their love to me.
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